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[tdanen_PREV (deleted)]

.well, sorry to say, but now you know what most guys feel like when the woman is unresponsive. Maybe he just did not know how to respond and probably felt you'd feel more rejected if he replied in the negative. Or maybe he felt confused and overwhelmed. And I guess he probably feels that at least this way if he needs more books he can still contact you.

[plauzty38]

`Thanks for the reply tdanen but I don't think he will be getting any more books from me ......come on now if he can't even respond to an email how the heck can he have the nerve to ask for any books. I thought we were friends and I do think that I deserved a response of some sort even if it had of been a no....but thats the way the ball bounces .....we live and learn ...it was his choice ,just wish he would have had the guts to say something....

[phantus1]

`I sooo agree with tdanen. This has nothing to do with you being an ssbbw. If you were skinny and he wasn;t interested you;d feel the same way. Women just don't understand how often men feel like fools for making an advance and then get rejected. Just think how a guy feels at a dance when rebuffed even in a good way. Walking back to place feeling like all eyes are on him LOSER written on his forhead. So what happens if the guy shows interest in you FIRST and you're not interested. Ok so you'll give him a gentle rebuff, trust me even tho he may act as ahh ok doesn't bother me IT DOES!!
All of this to say, don't let ONE rejection stop you from trying again and again, it is worth it. Wish an ssbbw that is as attractive as you approached ME sigh

[sweetnwild39 (deleted)]

`We live in a world of judgementors, no matther who you are people always try to put us down, but the key is dont allow them. People act and behaive how they please, but you are resposible of your weakness, by feeling down. Honey you are beautiful (stick it to your head) carry on who you are proudly, be the beautiful woman you are, be happy with yourself, and trust me nothing or no-one will cause a negative effect inside you (like a an armor). I been there and done better today, and most of time I caught more attention than ordinary women. I feel beautiful, sexy and confidence and people perceive that. With that sexy face.. you are a killer. Good Luck!

[plauzty38]

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