whores???/

[stonergurl420]

How come when a women likes to have lots of --- they get called a ---- or a whore?????

Kasandra

[southernfinery]

`well the only thing left to call them is prostitute but they have to be earning some income from their escapades to get that title......

[fatuglyguy (deleted)]

`ooops! wrong button.....lol...
Didn't mean to place a blank there hope it goes away....lol...
I may be opening a can of worms here so forgive my ignorance. I have never called a lady with an over active libido a"whore," nor would I ever call a lady a ----, a few guys I know I would cause there acting like every woman is theirs. But that being said you want to meet a true whore/ prostitute look at my mother when I was a child. She couldn't stop her --- drive evne for us children. that's why at age 13 I ran away from home and have yet to return. My so called mother had her day job and was a ------ after dark. it's one thing to have a huge --- drive but still another to abandon her children for some --- and money. the worse part is I grew up to have that same ---- in my eyes that she had. I may also day as she did who knows...

[southernfinery]

`alot of hate and rejection coming from some of the posts.I can actually feel the rage mixed with sadness radiating from the post.I have to wonder what the --- without love adds to the mix of emotional turmoil.I have to also wonder how long will you participate in such deadly behavior before you realize your punishing yourself for something you had no control over.Incest is devastating stonergurl and it can lead to emotional sickness because it can hide within our memory for years before we have strength enough to face it.By then it has made us physically ill because it takes alot of moving around in the brain to keep that hidden but yet it still keeps sending us little bites to nibble on but only enough to make you know that something is amiss.Rape is another reason for self-loathing and total disrespect of ones body and mind.Rejection and abandonment issues can also lead to ------ unsurety and confusion as to how one should feel and think about the"other"sex.Yes drugs are usually the forerunner for the premissive attitude about"sexual curiousity" and has been used as a copeing mechanism.(ask a prostitute).....I need to add something and that is that alot of small children have been ed and worse when they were so small that it could only be remembered in their memory log.It grows up in them as their body grows gnawing at their souls and visting them in their dreams as nightmares.These children grow up into -------- permissive individuals at an early age.They act as though they have no control over any area of their lives.Even when they attempt to control something,it goes spinning out of control because it is a part of their souls to not have control by then.They do this and don't understand why their so different from their siblings.The one who did this to them is usually the one saying how out of control that person is and how they need to get help and will even act as though they want to help especially if they are a near kin to them.They offer to try to ease their quilt.

[liefventje69]

`like said before it is simple discrimination of ---. I see every girl as who she is and not by what she is.

[stonergurl420]

`wow....... things got way serious butt all an all you all have great opinions thanks for sharing them

[anainthestars (deleted)]

`I think that ---- can also apply to men who sleep around...to be honest I don't like that word...--- should be a way to release yourself and feel good...but just like anything it can become an addiction or a search for something that obviously --- doesn't bring...people who use the word ----, have problems with themselves already so...why listen to their word or even value their opinion? they obviously don't value yours...

loving sex, having lots of --- and feeling pleasure is okay for everyone as long as it doesn't harm you or anyone else (like or incest for example)

[bizzare401 (deleted)]

`some people use smoking, eating in excess, drinking, drugs, or --- to cope with a situation in life. often when a person can't fix themselves they will keep leaning on their (crutch) coping mechanism till it turns into an addiction, at that point, if she is a woman society will run her down and call her names, but if it is a man we pat him on the back and say good for you. but its all the same! the addict NEEDS HELP!!

[lexlovespizza (deleted)]

`I don't know, and I don't care. I don't let things like this bother me because in all reality I have more important things to worry about. For example like what I am eating for dinner. So don't let things like this bother you.

[zaftiglust]

`I find that men who use those terms do so either in an attempt to control a woman they don't understand or to hurt one they can't have. Women who use those terms against other women lack self-awareness. Just to clarify, a whore is a prostitute and a ---- takes no money for her services. I have a highly tuned ------ nature for which I have NO shame. I like good ---. I happen to prefer it to be within the confines of a relationship. I think it allows me to be more uninhibited and offers an opportunity for exploration. However, if more than one partner is another woman's "thing," I say good for her...just be safe.

[southernfinery]

`honestly though zaftiglust how do you separate the two terms which in all honesty end up in exactly the same place?Imo it's like putting screen-doors on a submarine,what's the use?,it won't stop the water from getting in,you know what I mean?Why try to stand on the pretense that one is less offensive to self then the other,what good does that accomplish?The only term that is any different from the others is prostitute because she or he are the only ones getting paid for the ----ty,whorish behavior,you know what I mean?sorry if this sounds offensive but really,just saying is all.gbu all

[xbubblyx]

I don't think women who like to have lots of --- should earn the title of being a ---- ot whore. It would be the fact of having --- with a lot of different people. Guys who sleep with a bunch of girls turn me off, but if he likes to get it on...why bash him?

But I do get your point; Why do girls earn a bad name for sleeping around when men don't. It's whorish and nasty no matter what gender is sleeping with a bunch of different people. It's unsafe, gross, and says a lot about how someone feels about themselves, even if it's a guy. You can't tell me that guys who try to get with as many girls as possible, or goes hunting for new girls almost every night are actually secure. If they were secure, they wouldn't use their ------ escapades to help "validate " themselves as men. And I respect a man who respects and is secure with his "manliness" enough to know that "banging a bunch of chicks" doesn't make him a "better man" or better than the guy who sleeps with one or two girls in a year.

[bbwluvr69 (deleted)]

`I was married to a bbw ---- actress so i think I have something to add here. I never considered her a whore or a ---- because she had --- with other men or because she liked ---. I was in love with her for the person she was. Somebody's ------ appetite is their own business although in these times you must be careful of the partners you choose and practice safe ---.

[cheriselou (deleted)]

`it all depends on the time place and people.yeh you can be in love and have --- thats great but we cant be inlove all the time, so thats when we can have that pure animalist kinda ---. outside of love i've had --- for the sake of being lonely , i'll be the first to say that's wrong and un-healthy but i've also had --- just because i wanted too it was fun and no harm done in my opinion and i definatly do not think that makes any woman a slag. it just means i enjoy sex!

[missykabaila (deleted)]

stonergurl420 wrote: How come when a women likes to have lots of --- they get called a ---- or a whore?????

Kasandra

Cuz women carry babies and a woman needs to know who the father of her child is. Plus, woman are receivers and we have to be cautious about who we let inside of the vessel our children will be created in. But if your bold enough to have --- you shouldnt be worried about what people are going to say about you.

Miss Missy