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What Women Want–At Least This One.

First blog post. Thunder cats are go: It's kind of a new idea for me that men might find me attractive sexually. It seems strange to me because I've never really known a man to specifically desire bigger women, particularly myself. Why? What's the draw? What's the benefit of being with a big woman? From a Darwinian perspective, it makes complete sense. Big woman, broad hips, large breasts. Good for both child bearing and rearing. But where's the sexual element? Help me out, boys. As I've slowly internalized the idea that my body--not just my mind or sense of humor or voice--may be sexually attractive to a man, I've gotten a little persnickety. I've decided to make (and publicize) a list of what I want. It largely boils down to this: I want a man who craves me. I want to be wanted. I've been smiled at, I've been appreciated, I've been considered the girl who gets her man later in life. All of that's nice enough, but if I'm completely honest, I want a man to WANT me. To desire me, to crave me, to burn for me. I don't necessarily want to have sex in the first stages of a relationship, but I'd like to feel that it's a possibility. No, a PROBABILITY. I wonder who can deliver? ;D

8 Responses to “What Women Want–At Least This One.”

  1. jrockin82 Says:

    My dear, I sure hope you find what you are looking for!!! Let me tell you; in a relationship, physically and sexually it’s totally different when you’re with a man that LOVES BBW! I recently started seeing a man that EXCLUSIVELY dates BBW, and it’s AMAZING!

    What I mean by amazing is; he loves every single inch of my body, and worships me, ALL OF ME! The way he’s explained it to me is: It’s the same thing as a guy who prefers thinner women. Some guys like flat bellies, I prefer big ones! And he’s a really good looking guy too!!! There are lots of Good looking men who prefer bigger women.

    I know that probably doesn’t help much, but like I said, it’s a completely different experience when you’re with a man that prefers or only dates BBW. I’ve actually started to like my body more, because he does. It’s a wonderful feeling, and I hope you find it hun!!!

    ~*Jaime*~

  2. kio Says:

    Jrockin82 is absolutely right. I only date big girls. There is always more than just the body though. I have to connect on some level with a woman to date her. But the feeling of a bigger girl is comforting. The warmth and softness next to me is soothing. And it’s a big turn on. I feel like a skinny girl will break to easily. lol. Plus big girls are just more fun personality wise, not all stuck up and think they are better than everyone else. They are more down to earth witch makes it easier to connect on a personal level.

  3. quirkymeggy Says:

    Well, tank you both very much! This is extremely helpful.

    I just feel like I need to understand the “why” behind it all before I can put certain purposes into effect. I know what most men like to see in a woman, but it’s different learning what special, specific men enjoy about a bigger woman. Very enlightening.

    Thank you both. And, Jaime, hopefully I do find a guy. If you know any fantastic ones, send them my way. ;D

  4. sirhansumransum Says:

    I believe that all women are a Beautiful Thing. ? I define beauty as that which brings enjoyment to the person who looks or contemplates. Most people define subjective properties as properties that require subjects of the right sort to make a difference. (As if that make’s sense) When we say something is beautiful, are we recommending to others that they should take delight in it? Don’t you Think so? Beauty may be intersubjective, but is it objective? Can we argue rationally about whether something is beautiful? Is beauty both skin deep and in the eye of the beholder? I Believe that beauty is a woman, and the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, or the way she does her hair, or the figure that she carries. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes and soul, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. The caring that she lovingly gives, the passion and lust that she shows from within. It’s the simple feeling of her touch and the comfort of her smooth skin. I don’t know what else to tell you But that alone should explain how we as men feel about women like you. Well at least I do!

  5. sirhansumransum Says:

    I believe that all women are a Beautiful Thing. ? I define beauty as that which brings enjoyment to the person who looks or contemplates. Most people define subjective properties as properties that require subjects of the right sort to make a difference. (As if that make’s sense) When we say something is beautiful, are we recommending to others that they should take delight in it? Don’t you Think so? Beauty may be intersubjective, but is it objective? Can we argue rationally about whether something is beautiful? Is beauty both skin deep and in the eye of the beholder? I Believe that beauty is a woman, and the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, or the way she does her hair, or the figure that she carries. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes and soul, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. The caring that she lovingly gives, the passion and lust that she shows from within. It’s the simple feeling of her touch and the comfort of her smooth skin. I don’t know what else to tell you But that alone should explain how we as men feel about women like you. Well at least I do!

  6. nobody4now Says:

    For me, the happiest days of my life were spent with a plus-size woman. She was the first plus-size woman I had ever been romantic with. One day I just realized that, “Geez, this woman has completely changed my tastes in women altogether”. She and I had a specific discussion about it before she passed away. We were watching some youtube videos and she asked me what i thought of a bbw celebrity…Anna Nichole Smith I think it was…and I told her I thought she looked much more appealing after she put on some weight, (though her personality was a turn off). So, I told her during that conversation that because of her I was only attracted to bigger women, and she quipped, “Well, because of you I like white guys now.”(she had never dated a white man before. She was half-Mexican and had only dated Hispanics prior). She was so funny and sharp with her wit.
    Well, she changed my heart and my life. Not only with her awesome personality but her sensuality and beauty. Im still in love with her, and cant imagine anyone but her in my life, though I understand thats not possible. If I ever do reach a point where I want to date again, anyone following in her footsteps will have to feature some of her traits in some way. Part of that is being plus-size.

  7. biluk85 Says:

    @meggy

    just shake what your momma gave you ; )

  8. toyer39 Says:

    I have always found security and warmth when laying next to a +size woman
    the feel of a soft body next to mine but in the end physical attraction is nothing compared to the love and trust you can feel from spending enough time together to learn and enjoy each other, if someone wants to get to know you because of how you look,give them the chance to find out if you and this potential mate could make a lasting relationship out of that attraction.
    Life is to short to not take a chance or two,live every day as its your last live & love greatly


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